Sunday, March 27, 2011

Fw: *** Friendship for Allah's Sake ***

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Date: 03/26/11 00:15:19
Subject: *** Friendship for Allah's Sake ***
 






Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem

Assalamu Alaikum WA Rahmatullahi WA Barkatuh!

Friendship for Allah's Sake


By Shawana A. Aziz


Man is liable to imitate and copy those whom he befriends.
If one's friends engage in virtuous deeds,
This would prompt him to imitate their good qualities.
Whereas, if one's friends indulge in bad practices,
Then it is very likely for him to get accustomed with their bad characteristics
And eventually incorporate them in his behavior, knowingly or unknowingly!
Such is also true concerning one's religion and beliefs
As Allah's Messenger * is reported to have said,
'Man is on the religion of his companions,
So let one of you choose whom he befriends.'

[Ahmad, Abu Dawood and Tirmidhee]




We are commanded to be very careful when choosing associates. The Prophet (sallallahu alaihi WA-sallam) cited an extraordinary comparison between righteous company and evil association. He (sallallahu alaihi WA-sallam) mentioned, 'Verily, the example of a good companion in comparison to an evil one is like that of the musk seller and the blacksmith's bellow. From the first you would either get a gift of his musk's scent, buy some from him, or enjoy its good smell, while the bellow will either burn your clothes, or give you a bad, nasty smell thereof.' [Agreed upon]

We, thus, find our pious predecessors so concerned and careful about their friends that they would invoke Allah to grant them righteous associates. It is related in Saheeh al-Bukharee that Alqamah said, I went to ash-Shaam and offered two Rak'ahs prayer and then I said, 'O Allah, bless me with a good pious companion.' Then I went to some people and sat with them. An old man came and sat beside me. I asked, 'Who is he?' They replied, 'Abu ad-Darda.' I said to him, 'I prayed to Allah to bless me with a pious companion and He sent you to me. He asked me, 'From where are you?' I replied, 'From the people of al-Koofa.' [Saheeh al-Bukharee (5/86)]

Along these lines, a Muslim should be very much concerned to understand the Islamic perspective of friendship and characteristics of a good companion, in order to choose the right person to associate with. Following are some guidelines deduced from the teachings of the Qur'aan and the Sunnah, which designate the characteristics of a Muslim's friends.


Friendship for Allah's Sake

A Muslim's primary concern before choosing friends should be to seek the Pleasure of Allah in the friendship. The Messenger of Allah (sallallahu alaihi WA-sallam) said, 'Whoever loves for Allah, and hates for Allah, gives for Allah and withholds for Allah, has completed his faith.' [Abu Dawood]


Friendship that is based upon the sincere purpose of seeking Allah's Pleasure brings about the love of Allah for the slave.

Abu Hurayrah (radhi allahu anhu) narrated that Allah's Messenger (sallallahu alaihi WA-sallam) said, 'A man went to visit a brother of his in another village. Allah sent an Angel to wait for him on the road. When the man came, the Angel asked him, 'Where do you intend to go?' He said, 'I am going to visit a brother of mine who lives in this village.' The Angel asked, 'Have you done him any favor (for which you are now seeking repayment)?' He said, 'No, I just love him for the sake of Allah.' The Angel told him, 'I am a messenger to you from Allah, sent to tell you that He (Allah) Loves you as you love your brother for His sake.' [Saheeh Muslim]

From the benefits of such a virtuous friendship is that on the Day of Judgment, when, 'the sky will be like the boiling filth of oil (or molten lead, etc.) and the mountains will be like flakes of wool. And no friend will ask of a friend.' [(70): 8-10] 'That day shall a man flee from his brother. And from his mother and his father, and from his wife and children.' [(81): 34-37] 'Allah, the Exalted, will declare on the Day of Resurrection, 'Where are those who loved each other for the sake of My Grace? This Day, I shall shade them under My Shade, when there is only My Shade.' [Saheeh Muslim]


Taken from As-Sunnah Newsletter - http://www.qsep.com 

 


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Saturday, March 19, 2011

Fw: Few Islamic Etiquette (part 2)

 
-------Original Message-------
Date: 07-03-2011 09:50:30 PM
Subject: Few Islamic Etiquette (part 2)
 
 

In the name of Allah, the Most-Merciful, the All-Compassionate
 
"May the Peace and Blessings of Allah be Upon You"

 

Praise be to Allaah, we seek His help and His forgiveness. We seek refuge with Allaah from the evil of our own souls and from our bad deeds. Whomsoever Allaah guides will never be led astray, and whomsoever Allaah leaves astray, no one can guide. I bear witness that there is no god but Allaah, and I bear witness that Muhammad is His slave and Messenger.
 
 
 
Bismillah Walhamdulillah Was Salaatu Was Salaam 'ala Rasulillah
As-Salaam Alaikum Wa-Rahmatullahi Wa-Barakatuhu


Ethics of Greeting (Salam)

            Islam has encouraged the custom of greetings among the members of Society because it leads to love and friendship. This is supported by the Prophet (pbuh), saying which meaning of is translated as: "You will never enter Paradise until you become believers, and you will not become believers until you love each other. Shall I guide you to something that makes you love each other? Spread greetings with peace among you."  (Muslim). 
            
                                                                                                      Ethics of Sitting

            Greet attendants of the meeting or gathering, as pointed out in the Prophet (pbuh), saying which meaning of is translated as: "If one comes to a meeting he should say: Assalamu Alaykum! (i.e. Peace be upon you!) and on leaving he should do the same, for the first greeting is not more important than the latter."  (Abu Dawood and Tirmidhi).

            It is not appropriate to ask someone to leave his sitting place for someone else as pointed out in the Prophet
(pbuh), saying which meaning of is translated as: "Never should anyone of you make someone rise from his place and sit in his place rather, make more room for others to sit."  (Bukhari and Muslim). "If someone leave his sitting place then returns to it, he will have more right to it"  as stated by the Holy Prophet, peace be upon him, (Muslim).

            Never separate two persons sitting as pointed out in the Prophet
(pbuh), saying which meaning of is translated as: "It is not permissible for a man to separate two men (by inserting himself sitting between them) unless they give permission."  (Abu Dawood and Tirmidhi).

            Never talk to a friend privately in the presence of a third person as pointed out in the Prophet
(pbuh), saying which meaning of is translated as: "If there are three of you, never should two of them talk without the third until you mix with other people, for this would grieve the third."  (Bukhari).

            Never sit in the middle of a circle or group of people, as pointed out in the Prophet
(pbuh), saying which meaning of is translated as: "Damned is he who sits in the middle of a sitting group."  (Abu Dawood).

            Leave space for others to sit, Allah said which meaning of is translated as: "O you who believe! When it is said, Make room! In assemblies, then make room; Allah will make way for you (hereafter). And when it is said, Come up higher! Go up higher; Allah will exalt those who have knowledge, to high ranks. Allah is Well-Aware of what you do."  (The Quraan, Chapter Az-Zukhruf, 43:11).

            It is desirable to suppress yawning as far as possible as it is a sign of laziness, as pointed out in the Prophet
(pbuh), saying which meaning of is translated as: "Yawning is from Satan, so when one of you yawns let him try to repel it as far as possible, for if one utters "Ha" (when yawning) the devil will laugh at him."  (Bukhari and Muslim).

            About sneezing, the Holy Prophet
(pbuh), said which meaning of is translated as: "If one of you sneezes, let him say: Praise be to Allah! And his Muslim brother should say to him: May Allah have mercy on you! Upon which he answers: May Allah guide you and make you well."  (Bukhari).


It is also advisable for a person, as stated by Allahs Messenger  (pbuh), said which meaning of is translated as: "on sneezing; to cover his mouth with his hand or garment and suppress his voice."  (Abu Dawood and Tirmidhi).

            Avoid belching (burping) while sitting in the presence of others. According to Ibn Umar, may Allah be pleased with him and his father, one man belched in the presence of Allahs Messenger 
(pbuh), said to him which meaning of is translated as: "stop belching, The biggest eaters in this worldly life will be the hungriest in the Hereafter."  (Tirmidhi and Ibin Majah).

           

            A person should not face those sitting with him with what they dislike.


Ethics of Gathering

            Islam respects the feeling of people who gather at a place to make gathering desirable and repel all that cause people to hate gathering. Therefore, Islam instructs its followers to be clean-bodied, with no bad smell, and clean-dressed, with no disgusting sights. It also instructs them to listen to the speaker without interrupting him and to sit where they find room without stepping over peoples neck or causing them any inconvenience by pressing against them.


This is supported by the Prophet (pbuh), saying while addressing Muslims during Friday sermon which meaning of is translated as: "Whoever has a bath on Friday, puts on the best of his clothes, puts some scent on if any, then attends Friday prayer without crossing over peoples necks and performs whatever rakats he could. Then keep quiet when the Imam mounts the pulpit until he concludes prayer. His prayer will be an atonement for the whole week preceding that prayer."  (Abu Dawood).


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Fw: " " Useful Informations " "don't you miss this information...

 
-------Original Message-------
From: xenon34
Date: 25-02-2011 07:02:20 PM
Subject: " " Useful Informations " "don't you miss this information...
 


Assalam Alaikum Wa Rahmath Ullahi Wa Barkatahu


ALL  FAMILY  MEMBERS  SHOULD  READ THIS, ESPECIALLY  CHILDREN!
 

A Lady Has Changed Her Habit Of How She Lists Her Names in Her Cell Phone Directory After Her Handbag Was Stolen.

Her Handbag, Which Contained Her Cell Phone, Credit Card, Purse, Etc.., Was Stolen. 

Twenty Minutes Later She Called Her Husband, From A Pay Telephone Telling Him What Had Happened.

Her Husband Said, 'I Have Just Received Your Text Message Asking About Our Pin Number And I Have Replied A Little While Ago.'

When They Rushed Down To The Bank, The Staff Told Them All The Money Was Already Withdrawn.

The Thief Had Actually Used The Stolen Cell Phone To Text Her Husband Listed in The Directory And Got Hold Of Their Pin Number.

Within Twenty Minutes He Had Withdrawn All The Money From Their Bank Account.

Moral of The Story:

Do Not Disclose The Relationship Between You And The People On Cour call List.

Avoid Using Names Like Home, Honey, Hubby, Sweetheart,
 
Mom, Dad, Etc.., 

And Very importantly, When Sensitive information is Being Asked For Through Text Messages, CONFIRM By Calling Back.

Also, When You Are Being Text Messaged By Friends Or Family To Meet Them Somewhere,
Be Sure To Call Back To Confirm Whether That Message Came From Them..
 

If You Do Not Reach Them,
Be Very Careful About Going Places To Meet 'Family And Friends' Who Text You.

PLEASE  PASS  THIS  ON.

I Never Thought About THAT! 


As Of Right Now, Do You Have 'Home' Listed in Your Cell Phone Directory?


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Thanks & Best Regards
Mrs Rubina Yasmeen
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